FINE I’ll make my own thread! Wiiith blackjack! And hookers!
Okay so, in another tangentially related thread, anime started to be discussed and I think some of us share the same issue: a LOT of anime is aimed at teens and young adults and starts to become uninteresting or awkward as time goes by and we get older.
I had the whole Love Hina manga series when I was a teen. I do not have these anymore.
So I wanted to put together a guide/essay for what makes good anime for adults—which maybe you can share with others to get their thoughts and suggestions—and then open the floor for ideas, suggestions, and general discussion! So without further ado, here’s an overview of what I think makes for good adult-oriented anime.
Right out the gate, one of the biggest things we’re looking for is characters and themes we relate to and are interested in. The kinds of things that interest teens and young adults (henceforth called the Demo for brevity) don’t click with us; we’ve largely moved on from, or are receiving therapy for, the issues of youth, and we have new problems we’d like our media to connect to.
For an example, contrast relationships: your typical Demo individual simply hasn’t had time for a serious relationship lasting more than a few years on the high end, but at our age we start to be dealing with relationships spanning decades, and that’s a whole different ball of fish. How you say goodbye to a true love you’ve dated for a year is significantly different than saying goodbye to a spouse you’ve been with for fifteen years.
So, mature themes that address the sorts of things we’re going through in our stage of life is very valuable and makes a story connect much more strongly. Which brings me to my next point: “sexual” and “violent” are not synonymous with maturity, and in fact can be even less mature than choosing not to include them. What makes a story mature is that it has more meaning and significance to a viewer with more life experience—so punching a hole in a dude’s chest isn’t “mature”, but why it’s happening may be.
It can help the exploration of such themes to involve characters who themselves are our age and can share these experiences and feelings with the viewer (and younger characters), and still older characters to share their own wisdom that we’re becoming more receptive to as we start to look ahead to the twilight years we know are around the corner. That said, mature themes can be carried by characters of any age, because raw reality is always a mature topic no matter how old you are.
That’s why taking place in a high school or being about children don’t have to be dealbreakers, but often are. Flagrant upskirting of school-age girls may be okay for a 17-year-old reader, and is certainly not kids’ reading, but it’s also hardly mature; as we get older we start to see how prurient and meaningless it is outside of momentary pleasure. However, two kids discovering a friendly mythical beast and going on fun adventures may seem childish, but with life experience it gains a melancholy poignance as we look back on things we remember but can never go back to, and for some of us can even give us a lifeline to our own children.
And speaking of a lifeline to the youth: good humor is ageless, and in my experience there are far more adult-friendly comedic animes than dramas, because in fact it’s in the humor genre where the age range of the characters is far less important than the humor itself. Japan seems to have a fairly madcap sense of humor, with a lot centered more around absurdity than pop culture or making fun. Couple that with having a much less “won’t somebody please think of the children” attitude than media in the States, and we find that humor in anime often has more staying power for adults than cartoons in America, where we tend to underestimate and talk down to our kids, resulting in media that appeals only to the very young.
Another area where anime shines for adult viewers is escapism; anime themes are all over the map, and while there are certainly a good chunk of them that are Demo-centric, there are many incredibly creative takes on genres that American media hasn’t even come close to. I’m sure all of us who’ve enjoyed anime over the years can immediately pick out at least one or two shows or films that took us somewhere utterly unique where we’d never been and will never forget. For those of us who are starting to feel that certain ennui that can result in mid-life crises, visiting completely new worlds can be incredibly valuable.
And I think that pretty much nails it down, from my perspective at least, but I’d love to hear other ideas, experiences, and input! And specifically, what animes have you seen over the years that you think ticks off these check boxes that you’d recommend for us “mature” old fogies? Sound off below!